12
Facts About Body Language You Should Know Before Your Next Job Interview
Most of us
aren't aware of our body language, especially when we're in a stressful
situation — but interviewers are trained to read it.
Karl Rozemeyer at TheLadders says in a report that involuntary body
language can be compared to stage fright for an actor.
To see how actors effectively communicate with their
bodies, Rozemeyer spoke to John Treacy Egan, a Broadway
actor, and Jodie Bentley, an acting
coach.
“I think it is important to have body awareness before you go into
an interview,” Bentley said. "There are many actions and habits that we
should consider doing or avoid doing to tell the right story during the
interview setting."
TheLadders gave us permission to share
these 12 body tricks jobseekers should master before stepping into the
interviewing room. All of the photos are modeled by Business Insider staffers.
1. Feel good
about your wardrobe and wear clothes that 'show you in your best lighting'
“I really think that the
clothes that you wear impact who you are, and if you wear something
that makes you feel fabulous, your body language is going to be so
much more comfortable in the moment," Bentley said.
2. Hold onto a
talisman to comfort yourself
“Wear a piece of jewelry or a scarf or something that has meaning to you
and can ground you in the moment. If I get nervous, sometimes I will look at my
wedding ring and think of my husband who supports me, and I realize I should be
doing this and I am on the right path."
"When we get nervous, we feel ourselves being removed from our
bodies slightly. I think that having that talisman is a great way just to keep
us grounded and present in the moment.”
3. Place your feet on the
floor
Keep both of your feet on the ground and try not to cross your legs,
which Egan said gives off signs that you're unsure of yourself.
4. Sit still
or you'll come off as a nervous person
“Nervous energy isn’t good,” Bentley said.
“And so a lot of people cross their legs and shake their legs over and over again. Not that we need to
sit with ankles crossed and be stiff.”
5. Place your
hands on your knees
“If you have to make a point,”
Egan said, “you can use your hands.”
However, try not to speak with your hands, so keep them on your knees so
that you'll be aware of them.
6. Sit a bit
forward to show that you're interested and serious about the interview
“You don’t want to sit back,”
Egan said. “Leaning backwards can leave the impression that you are overly
relaxed and can make you look untidy.”
7. Folding
your arms will make you seem unfriendly
“I think that is a bad habit that a lot of
people fall into. It definitely closes you off (from the interviewer). Not a lot of actors do it,” Bentley said.
8. Playing
with your hair or cracking your knuckles can be extremely distracting to your
interviewer
“I have big, red, curly hair, and
I used to twirl my curls when I got nervous,” Bentley said. “It is about really
being honest with yourself and saying to yourself: ‘What are my habits when I
get nervous, and how can I eliminate them?’ ”
9. Putting your
hands in your pockets makes you look 'messy'
“If you are standing at all in
the interview, then hands in the pockets are a big no-no. That just looks so
clumsy and messy,” Bentley said.
Instead, Egan advised to "let your hands drop to your side, and talk.
When you need to use your hands, engage them.”
10. Don't invade the
interviewer's space and keep your hands and body parts on your side of the desk
“Some people just get too close
for comfort,” Bentley said. “They think that they want to make a connection, so
they get closer. Really knowing that boundary is really important.”
11. Use props to help you
look more comfortable
“If you need a prop like a pen,
use it if it makes you feel a little bit more comfortable,” Egan said. “Start
with the place where you feel safest, holding your hands together or holding a
prop, but give yourself the chance to step away from that during the
presentation or interview. It makes you look stronger.”
12. Staring will make you look too intense and unnatural
“In a conversation, (actors) never fully lock eyes with people,” Bentley
said. “We talk, we look people in the eyes, we have a thought, and we look
away. We look to the right, and we look to the left.”
Egan agreed: When you start staring at them, you start "to look a
little crazy. If you feel like you are looking the person in the eye too
long, hold it one more second and break away.”
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